PAKISTAN / A blogger who intends to bring a positive change in society through her words.
I always see people passing judgment on the lady and holding her responsible for the broken marriage. I can't keep quiet because it literally breaks my heart why everyone thinks that it's only the girl who is at fault and is responsible for not managing the relationship well. And then they compare today's women to those who have been through hell, been exploited and finished in their abusive marriages…
When a woman is beaten by her husband or any other family member, at least she has some sympathy of the people around her if no actual support. But when a woman is bashed, bullied, doubted, accused and harassed in her own home, by her own husband, no one tries to understand her condition and no one supports her.
You don’t need to do anything to please others. Your priority must be to keep yourself happy and satisfied. Invest in yourself. Give yourself that respect that you want others to give you. Love yourself and everyone around you will love you and accept you too!
I want to mention the mistake that most parents make. They do not tell their daughters to stand up for their rights. They do not let their girls raise their voices against violence. They don’t teach their girls to fight for respect.